half their age plus six...

apparently this is true...........
or at least its true in sweden since i asked 5 swedish men the same question, and got the same answer.............

i was talking to someone about 'age limits', as in how old or how young would they date a person.............
and i was informed that for men, there is actually a rule for the cut off age of 'how young'.............
and that formulae is:- 'half their age plus six years'..................
so if the guy is say 27 then half of that is 13.5, + 6 on to it = ability to date a 19 and a half year old!!!
does that actually read right???
and who the hell came up with that equation!!! (a guy no doubt :-p!!!)

and........... i was also informed that, if the woman is older, then that is an individual decision of 'does she still look hot' as to if they would date her??? (of course other factors would be influencial too, such as, if she is really really loaded with money or if she has the ability to make sure you have a secure future career............ at this point in the conversation, i am not totally sure if they were joking or not............ probably not???)

makes perfect sense all of this right???

as for me, i think that the age range i would allow, would possibly be in the area of:- '5 years my junior and 10 years my senior......... give or take'!!! (why am i thinking about this, let alone typing about this???)
of course 'unforeseen circumstances' would too put prejudice on my decision.......................... that aside, i am not in a particular rush to find myself a 'comfort boy' or a 'sempai'........................ and DON'T start making offers to me unless you intend to have a serious relationship, in which case pls contact me after janaury 2nd 2008!!! (don't ask)..................

wait!!! i just thought of something stupid to add on to this blogg...........
of total irrelevance here is a list of things that i would not be caught dead saying or typing to someone in an email...................
"i think of you before i sleep"
"you are the first thing i think of when i wake up"
"life isn't worth living without you"
"you are my sun and i am your moon......"
"i feel as if i am drowning when i look into your eyes"
"i believe that it was fate that brought us together" (wait... i actually do have some belief in fate and destiny so maybe i would write something similar to this???)

and any other cheesy cliched line..................
i will have it known that if i was to say or write something to express my feelings then it would be much much more poetic and well thought out!!! and if i ever do say or write something like the above, it wil be because i am resorting back to my natural cynical self of being 'sarcastic'!!! in other words 'taking the piss'......................

BUT just to make me seem somewhat like a human with a heart , i do belive in 'love'.............. and i would tell someone that i loved them...................... but it might take a while for me to say this since i am very reluctant to admit it (so much so that i might do the opposite instead???) and also because i have never felt that way for anyone yet.................................... (or maybe i am just denying it!!! :-p)

hmmmm..........
do i put my faith on 'love at first sight'???
errrrrr................ no, not really since i think that its mere 'infatuation and lust' at first sight..............
i think i said it before, i think love is a ongoing growing process that is nurtured by the two individuals involved.......................................
its similar to looking after a plant............
if you take care of it, then eventually it will blossom into something beautiful and remain healthy and everlasting for as long as you tend to it...............
if you neglect it, then all you are left with is a shrivelled piece of rotten vegetation that is only good for putting back into the soil so that it can give some vital nutrients to our dying earth!!! (how romantic was that???) ...................................

okay now i need to get back to thinking up more nonsensical things to write about???